Conversations by Design™

Cognitive engineering for leaders who want to stay out of autopilot. Because composure, not control, is your most powerful leadership skill. Most difficult conversations don’t fail because leaders lack skill. They fail because pressure hijacks physiology, emotion, and meaning —before words are spoken. We help leaders design the internal conditions that make clarity, courage, and presence available when it matters the most. 

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Transform the Inner Architecture Behind Every Conversation

25 years working with senior leaders on  high-stakes negotiations, conflict and decision-making.

Our Approach

Communication by Design. Leadership by Presence.

We equip leaders and teams to replace reactivity with awareness, turning conversation into your most powerful business strategy. Business moves fast—and when pressure rises, emotion often leads.

Studies show that nearly 70% of employees avoid difficult conversations at work.

69% of leaders feel unprepared and uncomfortable communicating with their teams.

The result? Misalignment, missed opportunities, and emotional fatigue across organizations. We bridge that gap—transforming avoidance into alignment, and friction into forward movement. I combine the practical clarity of my C4U™ Communication Framework with the depth of Integral Coaching®, helping leaders stay grounded, emotionally intelligent, and effective—even in the conversations they typically avoid. Where most programs teach techniques, my approach creates presence you can trust, clarity you can deliver, and conversations that strengthen relationships rather than strain them.

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Programs

Programs We Offer

Authentic Leadership Development

Cultivate self-aware leaders who inspire alignment and engagement

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Conversations by Design™ for teams

Elevate your team’s communication, collaboration, and leadership through intentional, aware, emotionally intelligent dialogue

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Intentional Conflict Resolution

Transform friction into collaboration through Conversation design

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Strategic Deployment Blueprint

Align communication, culture, and execution across the organization

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Difficult Conversation Mastery (Conversations by Design™)

Regulate emotion, time your message, and communicate for growth

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Testimonial

Reviews from Our Valued Clients

Gaëtan is an incredibly talented negotiation and executive coach. He’s coached me through complex, multiple-party negotiations all the way down to sales outreach emails, and all with very strong results. I haven’t worked with anyone else of Gaëtan’s caliber.

Janet

CEO, Social Media Firm

Gaëtan is an incredibly talented negotiation and executive coach. He’s coached me through complex, multiple-party negotiations all the way down to sales outreach emails, and all with very strong results. I haven’t worked with anyone else of Gaëtan’s caliber.

Janet

CEO, Social Media Firm

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What Makes This Different

Most leaders don’t struggle because they lack experience or intelligence.  They struggle because, under pressure, their internal state collapses before they realize it—tightening their physiology, activating emotional drivers, distorting meaning, and pulling them into a reaction.

My work focuses on designing the internal conditions that allow leaders to remain composed, accurate, and intentional in high-stakes conversations.

Not scripts. 

Not a personality change.

Not a performance theater.

Cognitive engineering applied to leadership in the real world

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How We Work

How We Work With Leaders

Executive Coaching (1:1)

For senior leaders navigating high-stakes conversations, conflict, or critical decisions. We work on:

Maintaining composure under pressure

Recognizing and regulating emotional drivers in real time

Redesigning meaning before reaction takes over

Staying present when conversations matter most

This is practical, precise, and grounded in your actual leadership context. 

Team & leadership development

For organizations where misalignment, conflict, or avoidance quietly erode performance.  Teams learn a shared language for: We work on:

Emotional regulation under pressure

Clear, non-defensive dialogue

Productive conflict 

Intentional conversation design

The result is not “better communication.”

It’s better decision-making, trust, and execution. 

Keynotes & strategic interventions

For leadership teams who need a shift in how conversations are understood, not another training. 

These sessions introduce the hidden architecture of conversations and explain why composure—not control—determines outcomes.

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Who This Work is for

Leaders operating under pressure

Executives responsible for outcomes, not optics

Organizations willing to look beneath behavior, not just correct it. 

If you’re looking for techniques, this won’t be a fit.  If you’re looking to lead with clarity when it counts, it will be.

This work focuses on what happens inside leaders before words are spoken

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